I’m 42 and it has worked out pretty well so far, honestly.
I joined the military, got good reviews (called “marks” for us), and tested well when I tried. Now I make good money, have the support of a lot of people in different departments and largely able to work on the projects I want, have gotten my #1 pick for station every time I have had to transfer, and will be retiring in 4 years with a bunch of ties to the community to keep me involved with things I enjoy after.
I get a lot of this is luck, and privilege (e.g. not everybody can join the military), and other factors. And regardless how hard I worked, many things ended up being popularity contests, so I missed some opportunties that way. But at no point did I feel like being nice and hardworking worked anything but in my own favor.
Yeah, I don’t know if it was my time in or what, but I came to the conclusion one day that we should just do a good job for the sake of doing a good job, and stop expecting people to fellate you for it. And I’m saying this having benefitted time and again from just doing a good job. There are times I did and times I didn’t, but I’m at a point where I won’t feel satisfied if I don’t do it right. Maybe I’m just old now.
Somewhat similar for me. I get my choice of positions at work because I can do every single one better than most everyone else. I play nice(but not too nice) so they’re willing to be flexible. Of course, sometimes management tries some shit, but that’s what the union is for.
But overall, I get more hours (which I want) because I work hard, and the positions I want. I’m aware it’s luck with my management team, but it’s still great
I’m 42 and it has worked out pretty well so far, honestly.
I joined the military, got good reviews (called “marks” for us), and tested well when I tried. Now I make good money, have the support of a lot of people in different departments and largely able to work on the projects I want, have gotten my #1 pick for station every time I have had to transfer, and will be retiring in 4 years with a bunch of ties to the community to keep me involved with things I enjoy after.
I get a lot of this is luck, and privilege (e.g. not everybody can join the military), and other factors. And regardless how hard I worked, many things ended up being popularity contests, so I missed some opportunties that way. But at no point did I feel like being nice and hardworking worked anything but in my own favor.
Most work places aren’t as socialized as the military, but your experience is still valid.
Yeah, I don’t know if it was my time in or what, but I came to the conclusion one day that we should just do a good job for the sake of doing a good job, and stop expecting people to fellate you for it. And I’m saying this having benefitted time and again from just doing a good job. There are times I did and times I didn’t, but I’m at a point where I won’t feel satisfied if I don’t do it right. Maybe I’m just old now.
Somewhat similar for me. I get my choice of positions at work because I can do every single one better than most everyone else. I play nice(but not too nice) so they’re willing to be flexible. Of course, sometimes management tries some shit, but that’s what the union is for.
But overall, I get more hours (which I want) because I work hard, and the positions I want. I’m aware it’s luck with my management team, but it’s still great