• slazer2au
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    342 months ago

    When you are in a circle of friends they will stand slightly closer to you then anyone else and when you talk they seem to pay more attention to what you are saying compared to what the group is discussing.

    • @Eheran@lemmy.world
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      22 months ago

      There sure is no all encompassing, easy answer, but that is a little off. Like telling a color blind person to “just look at the color”.

      • Vanth
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        82 months ago

        I think the better advice is to find a trusted friend in one’s local culture instead of troll-y internet randos who could be on the other side of the world.

  • @Mac@mander.xyz
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    102 months ago

    If you’re interested then go ask.
    Don’t try to figure it all out ahead of time.

  • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    92 months ago

    Well she came up to me and hit on me once. Later she signed some paperwork to make me her wife. I’m pretty sure she likes me after all that

  • @Mothra@mander.xyz
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    82 months ago

    What’s the context and age? Does she laugh at your jokes more than with other people’s jokes? Really it’s hard to know because you need to first establish the person’s baseline.

    Like for example whoever suggested the hair behind the ear thing, it could be, but it also could be that they do that too often. I’m one of these too oftens for hair behind the ear and I tend to gesture more at my ears too because I can’t always hear perfectly.

    So, yeah there’s a hundred tell tale signs but you first need to have something to compare them to.

    • Vanth
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      222 months ago

      Be careful with this one. As someone who has to be intentional about making eye contact, it does not mean I like you.

      And moving hair is just… moving hair.

      • @Exec@pawb.social
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        2 months ago

        Agreed, as one with long hair I do the thing with pushing them behind my ears so it won’t be in my face

        • Hossenfeffer
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          32 months ago

          it won’t be in my faec

          face or feces/faeces? Probably makes a difference.

          • Vanth
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            82 months ago

            The woman who makes direct eye contact with you while adjusting her ass crack hairs definitely has some sort of feelings towards you.

      • @KeenFlame@feddit.nu
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        12 months ago

        But also many people adjust hair when attracted to someone. It’s subtle but it’s not like these indicators are abundant so take it for what it is

        • Vanth
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          12 months ago

          Also when nervous. Which might tend to happen when someone notices someone observing them every time they adjust their hair.

    • @Luci@lemmy.ca
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      42 months ago

      Who passes to the right??? There’s even an instructional song on this