• @Urist@lemmy.ml
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    416 hours ago

    For all those that think this is the government overstepping with an unenforceable law, you are not grasping the intent correctly. Declaring that we have democratically decided to have an age limit for social media means that we have laid the groundwork for collective action. This means that suddenly schools, parents, teenagers themselves, etc. all have a reason and a mandate for keeping young people off platforms that we believe to be detrimental to their development and well-being. True democratic culture lies not in bourgeoisie domination (as many Americans like to believe), but rather in mutual trust and cooperation in order to solve common and big problems.

    • @rottingleaf@lemmy.world
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      224 minutes ago

      Well.

      Anything good I encounter in cultures that interest me is similar to the matching part of the Scandinavian cultures, or so it would seem.

      And in this particular case it is so.

      But in general I don’t like this optimism of “you don’t understand, it’s different in our land of elves as opposed to your sorry piece of clay with goblins in it”.

      Centralized social media, controlled by companies, I’d want to be just banned. These are all harm and no good. But in general - see about optimism.

    • @erlend_sh@lemmy.world
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      122 hours ago

      Exactly!

      It’s not about Totalizing Enforcement. What it changes is the cultural norm. Not right away but over time.

      An age limit on alcohol never stopped anyone of any age to acquire alcohol, but it sets the societal bar for what’s acceptable. You don’t wanna be the parents that gave your kids alcoholic beverages at 13.

      It’s always a little jarring how everyone very readily believes that the Scandinavian countries are the happiest in the world, but won’t believe that the incremental policy changes we implement here have any effect 🤷‍♂️

      • @Urist@lemmy.ml
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        22 hours ago

        As a case study, we did this in 1988 with a smoking law that was incrementally improved with great success. It was controversial at the time, but is now generally regarded as such an obvious policy: no smoking in or around public transport, in bars and restaurants etc…

  • @sandbox@lemmy.world
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    75 hours ago

    If anything, it would be far better to ban people above a certain age from social media. I’ve seen far more older people get sucked in by online misinformation and become extreme conspiracy theorists than kids.

      • @clutchtwopointzero@lemmy.world
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        But government can take away the means or incentive for self harm. It is just a matter of society agreeing. That will never happen in the USA and Americans are fine. Norway agreed and they are fine.

        • @0x0@programming.dev
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          and Americans are fine.

          Right… the land of the free is clearly an example for everyone, the epitome of societal progress.

      • @sandbox@lemmy.world
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        Sorry, but that logic is absolute and total bullshit.

        Adults are extremely bad at making decisions in their best interests too. Why does the government have to oppress kids to protect them, but you when the exact same logic is applied to adults, that’s a problem?

        It’s all oppression. It’s all wrong. Kids should have autonomy too.

        • @kava@lemmy.world
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          Kids are disadvantaged in a number of ways compared to adults

          • the obvious factor is that the prefrontal cortex is not developed. they simply do not have the capacity to make fully informed decisions.
          • another factor is the simple lack of experience. when you compare an 8 year old to an adult, that adult has been through a lot of shit in their life. they learned a thing or two and that gives him the ability to sniff out bullshit much more easily than a child. think of it as the bullshit immune system
          • kids don’t have the resources that adults do. they typically don’t have access to credit cards so the free things on the internet attract them more easily. websites (really apps these days) prey on this fact.
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          It’s you who was suggesting adults of certain age should be banned from social media, not me. You don’t get to then say ‘It’s all oppression. It’s all wrong.’ in the next sentence. You’re being a hypocrite.

          There’s a good reason we don’t let kids eat sand, hit their friend, drive cars, vote, watch porn, drink alcohol and smoke tobacco. Their brains are undeveloped. They don’t know any better. They’re entitled to autonomy when they’re capable of it.

          • @sandbox@lemmy.world
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            My point was that anyone sensible would immediately see the problem with my suggestion, and that would perhaps lead them to understand why enforcing the same rule against kids is wrong.

            And again, I’m sorry, but your reasoning is weak as fuck. Would you take away the rights of someone with an intellectual disability from watching porn or smoking?

            • @Cokes@feddit.org
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              If anything, it would be far better to ban people above a certain age from social media.

              Yeah, sure. That screams that you don’t advertise, but rather oppose banning adults and above that all age groups. You are backpedaling and moving the goal posts. It would be much more adult to accept the flaw of your first comment.

            • @ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee
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              Would you take away the rights of someone with an intellectual disability from watching porn or smoking?

              That’s a perfectly valid discussion to be had.

    • @IndustryStandard@lemmy.world
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      Is it? Not dealing with “the other kids have social media so I can too”!

      Governments have always been involved in parenting and the education of kids.

  • foremanguy
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    25 hours ago

    We shouldn’t blocked the social media, they are pure shit, don’t get me wrong, but we should only educate correctly the people to show them how bad it is

    • Angel Mountain
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      With that logic we should give everyone a nuclear bomb and teach them not to press the button. Let’s see how that works out.

      Big tegh companies spend billions on ways to influence your behaviour, making it even difficult for adults to not fall for their traps, let alone kids with still very much underdeveloped brains. Just look at all the stupid things you had done when you were a kid.

      • @0x0@programming.dev
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        With that logic we should give everyone a nuclear bomb

        And in here lies the problem of using bad analogies.

      • foremanguy
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        My answer was an ideal thing, but it will not happened soon because of the big corporates, they are keeping us for profit. You’re absolutely right that it’s the fault of corporations.

  • Rhaedas
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    “Are you 15 or more years old? Y/N”

    There, that fixed the problem.

    • @Oaksey@lemmy.world
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      57 hours ago

      True but would you prefer weak enforcement or strong enforcement?
      Strong enforcement would likely involve the government having better records of your browsing habits.

    • PhlubbaDubba
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      IIRC Norway has an actual Nat ID system, so assuming they develop a workable API for it ðis could actually be implemented quite easily.

      Preventing kids stealing ðeir parents’ IDs to open accounts anyway will be ð actual challenge.

      • @CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
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        Is there a reason that you use some character (I’m afraid I don’t know the name of it) wherever you would otherwise use “th”? I can’t guess if it’s some kind of technical issue with federated text, something from a different language you’re incorporating, or one of those “I think we should add x symbol to the language so I’ll use it to draw attention to the effort” deals, like with the people that use the combined !? symbols whenever both are relevant at once.

        • @catloaf@lemm.ee
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          279 hours ago

          It’s a thorn, a letter making a th sound. Still in use in Icelandic, I think. In English, it’s archaic at best.

          Fun fact, when it fell out of use, the letter Y was used to replace it for a while. So when you see something saying “ye olde”, verbally it’s still “the old”.

          • RBG
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            I actually always wondered about the y in old texts. Thanks!

        • @elliot_crane@lemmy.world
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          I’m probably doing exactly what they want here (e.g. having a conversation about it), but that letter is called “Eth” and was the Old English way of spelling the “th” sound: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eth

          A number of linguistic buffs want to bring it back to the modern English alphabet.

        • @mannycalavera@feddit.uk
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          Is there a reason that you use some character (I’m afraid I don’t know the name of it) wherever you would otherwise use “th”?

          Passive aggressive typing.

        • PhlubbaDubba
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          … I’m also one of ðose people ðat uses ð interrobang

        • @CommanderCloon@lemmy.ml
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          It’s the original English letter for th which was more or less deleted from the alphabet when imported printing press types lacked said letter.

          Before it got universally replaced by th some printers used y like in “ye olde” which is really pronounced “the old”

    • Sunshine OP
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      If they admit they’re below the age of 15 they should be banned until they reach the mature age.

      • Rhaedas
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        That’ll get them. No one under 15 has any idea what a VPN is.

        • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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          How hard up are you for Facebook? Like, there’s a technical solution, sure. But a big part of social media’s addictive quality is ease of access.

          Making access annoying absolutely will curb teen use.

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          Could also age gate ð VPNs wiðin Norwegian networks. Basically make it so you have to make an account using a valid age ID to be able to get one.

    • @Urist@lemmy.ml
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      Probably networks where users post personal data in conjunction with chat features. Obviously, Wikipedia is not social media in this regard and neither is a mailing list.

    • @pastermil@sh.itjust.works
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      And most importantly: How would they enforce that? Kids have been lying about their ages since the dawn of internet.

      • @fine_sandy_bottom
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        I don’t think they really need to.

        Laws are often just an acknowledgement of a society’s expectation.

        “We’ve all decided that kids under 15 using social isn’t great.”

        The fact that this law exists makes it infinitely b easier for parents to establish and maintain rules in their household, because peer pressure is minimised.

        Yes, some kids will still use social before they’re 15. Perhaps most kids. However, I think harmfully excessive use will be minimised.

      • fatalicus
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        57 hours ago

        Would probably require the sites to use Bank ID during signups from Norway.

        Bank ID is a national system for confirming identity.

          • Dr. Moose
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            Now Meta not only knows your name and where you live and your darkest secrets but your legal ID too — fun!

        • @0x0@programming.dev
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          And this is the problem with any age verification online… there’s always some lurking privacy invasion. It’s for your own good.

      • RBG
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        The enforcing part is where this is likely to get shitty. Once they establish this as a law they maybe will try and sue companies that don’t provide an age check on their websites. Now if that is possible I am not sure, seeing as many of those are having HQs in Ireland or Netherlands due to tax reasons.

        But if that is successful it would mean they actually have to check everyone’s age by some means, which means collecting IDs. Which definitely is bad news for users, we all know that data won’t be securely stored or deleted.

        Not sure how else this could go down.

      • @Oaksey@lemmy.world
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        Since Leisure Suit Larry at least. ;) Since alcohol sales were restricted to adults? Since… ?

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    I really dislike this sort of daddy over reach but it seems like this is the only way to make corpos get real about enforcement.

    This would result needing to provide ID to use normie social media?

    How would this even work globally and on places like fediverse tho?

    • Dr. Moose
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      How would this even work globally and on places like fediverse tho?

      it wouldn’t work. I’m betting 100$ right now that nothing will come of this law it’s purely populist virtue signaling.

    • @IcePee@lemmy.beru.co
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      Well the devil is in the detail. However, what appears is being mooted is it will only affect big social media corporations. A Lemmy instance is hardly big business. Not that I’m discounting creeping regulation moving into the fediverse.

      • @Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world
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        It’s impossible to specifically target Facebook and Snapchat without also affecting Lemmy and YouTube comments.

        They’re all social media with minor UI differences.

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          It really isn’t, you just go the way the recent EU laws have gone and write them such that only large services (with over x million users or similar) are under obligation to comply and implement age gates and the like.

  • @sandbox@lemmy.world
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    I would highly recommend listening to the If Books Could Kill podcast about the book “The Anxious Generation”. I feel like it’s probably one of their weaker episodes, if I’m honest, because they kind of have a preconceived bias against social media, but I think they basically come around to the conclusion that there is basically no compelling evidence that social media is particularly harmful to young people, in a general sense, and that on the whole, it’s also very useful for young people.

    This is just yet more oppression of young people dressed up as if it’s for their best interests.

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    Governmental overreach. Good luck trying to enforce this shit.

    Social media isn’t bad inherently. Addictive algorithms, violation of user privacy, etc. is bad.

    Kids should be taught how to make use of social media for good. I was bullied quite a lot as a kid. Social media is what kinda brought me out of it.

    Social media told 13 year old me, that it is alright to be gay. Social media is what made me interested in politics. A huge part of who I am today is because of the nice people I met online. Fuck the government for trying to take it away from others like me.

    • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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      Social media isn’t bad inherently. Addictive algorithms, violation of user privacy, etc. is bad.

      Cigarettes aren’t bad for you. It’s just the burning tar and the nicotine.

      • Dr. Moose
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        comparing substances to social media is fucking stupid and you should feel bad.

      • @Nalivai@lemmy.world
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        But social media don’t have to burn tar. They chose to because this way they can get more money, but it’s not an inherent part of the system, it’s an exploitation of it for profit, and can be separated

    • bean
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      How do you do, fellow Lemgay. 🏳️‍🌈

    • Chozo
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      While all of that may be true, it doesn’t necessarily negate the adverse affects social media can also have on young people.

      I think you got lucky and found a community that accepted and welcomed you. But a lot of kids aren’t as fortunate, and their experiences with social media are a lot more sinister. Children are more exposed to predators and harassment now than ever before.

      I dunno that a full “ban until ___ years old” policy is the cure, either. But it’s a start.

      • @sandbox@lemmy.world
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        There is little evidence for this claim. As far as I recall, evidence actually shows that things like bullying, harassment and child sexual exploitation are dropping.

      • @UraniumBlazer@lemm.ee
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        I don’t understand why the knee jerk reaction for everything is just “ban it”.

        You want to reduce the exposure of children to predators? Moderate the platforms. We can agree that Reddit n Lemmy’s moderation is a lot better than Instagram’s moderation. Why don’t we start with that???

        The biggest way predators do their predatoring is by sliding into ur DMs. You could restrict this by requiring approval for all such new DMs by a parent’s account or something. There r just so many ways that social media can be made safer for kids.

        Social media is a digital townsquare. Sure, there r some malicious actors lurking about. Does that mean that kids should just be banned from this townsquare? No. The townsquare should be made safer for kids. There must be some hand-holding for kids in the beginning so that they can learn how to make the best use of this infrastructure in the future.

  • tiredofsametab
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    You may use it only until you are 15. Alternately, you may choose any 15-year window in your life. Choose wisely.