Every show with a suicide now has a disclaimer with a suicide hotline at the beginning. Is there any evidence that these warnings make a positive difference?

  • @fine_sandy_bottom
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    Feeling suicidal usually isn’t something that talking to a friend can resolve.

    Getting a suicidal person to access the right kind of help is the right move.

    That doesn’t mean you refuse to talk to a suicidal person, it means that part of supporting them as a friend is helping them get help.

    • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      52 months ago

      Also as someone who spent a lot of time when I was younger as an untrained suicide counselor, it’s rough on you. Suicidal people should reach out to friends, but understand that if your friends aren’t able to help or keep boundaries there it’s not you, it’s not you being a burden, they may love you very much, but they need to engage in self preservation and the experts have better coping mechanisms, are in therapy, and have professional distance. Being an untrained suicide counselor was both a form of self harm and working through my trauma. I did real good for others and I don’t really regret it, but if you’re feeling the urge to do it, either get trained or get therapy, ideally both. I did later get trained in a form of counseling relevant to my traumas and I’m still comfortable doing that, but suicide counseling is rough at the best of times like being an emotional emt. And like emts they want to get to you in time to help, so if you need them use them, but the untrained are more like first aid, they can keep you around until an emt can get you to a doctor.

      • horse
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        2 months ago

        Serious question: How do you tell someone suicidal that opens up to you, that you can’t handle the topic without making them feel worse?

        • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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          “I care deeply for you and that’s why I’ll acknowledge I can’t give the help you need. You need an expert not just a friend, and I can’t hurt myself helping you”