A kat, a mouse, a tiny house and not enough to eat.
I use both Fedora atomic (using cosmic DE) and Universal Blue’s Bluefin so I’m largely just getting on and doing things as software is Flatpak, updates are automatic and I use Box Buddy as the gui for distrobox (installing other architecture software). After years of terminal use I have found this way of working very liberating but know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.
I’d take a look at universal blue; Bazzite, Aurora or Bluefin. I use Bluefin and tailscale is built in (you just have to login to your setup). They’re atomic so they upgrade the whole image automatically (no faffing or bugging you) and apps are all flatpak. I get on great with it. Only caveat is it only supports relatively modern nvidia graphics cards. https://universal-blue.org/
If you are going to prowl the streets then it might as well be Letchworth Streets.