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93maddie94@lemm.eeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How can children be introduced to digital technology and the internet in a playful way? At what age is this appropriate? And how can this be done without exposing children to all the negative aspects?
31·6 months agoI read the book Screentime Solution by Emily Cherkin (also Anxious Generation and Screen Schooled). Basically her advice is to be screen-intentional as a family. Right now my husband and I make an effort to put our phones away when we come home from work and spend time with each other and our toddler. Another thing is that she does not have any of her own internet devices. It’s the family tv and my iPad that she uses (with supervision and sparingly). We have a few devices she uses that are dumb (old gameboy and old iPod) but still rarely. Restaurants and family dinner are screen free zones. Even as she gets older we’re more likely to get a dumb phone and a family phone than let her have her own device. Something from the book was to let your kids have access to the internet and social media when you’re ready for them to see porn (not necessarily her opinion but an anecdote) and there’s no fool-proof parental controls. We are getting a family computer soon to teach her typing, using a mouse, and general computer skills but that will not be unsupervised or even internet connected most of the time. My goal is to teach her responsible use and to always have a line of communication open about it.
When I ordered a watch band that for some ungodly reason required a signature they would accept anything. Wouldn’t take it anywhere else. Wouldn’t accept the signature on the back of the “sorry we missed you” paper. Wouldn’t let me change anything online. They came 3 days in a row (Wed-Fri) before informing me they were returning it to sender. Luckily they tried again on Saturday and we were home.
My great aunt gets their fish catered for her family Christmas party every year
“Necessary” I’m fine with. “Unnecessarily” is impossible for me though. Can’t even get close enough for autocorrect, needed to use the microphone…
I have ONE good picture of both of my dogs. I got it by taking a bunch and splicing two pictures together. Even then my one dog isn’t looking at the camera. He refuses.

93maddie94@lemm.eeto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the point in getting married?
15·7 months agoI didn’t do the marriage thing because of love. I don’t need a piece of paper to tell me that. I did it for the logistical stuff. Buying a house. Having a kid. Combining finances. Life insurance. Health insurance. While all of this could be possible without being married, it’s much easier to have a marriage certificate than to try to prove to everyone all the time that we’re partners. If my husband were in the hospital on life support, being next of kin would simplify so many things. My culture is designed in a way that traditional marriage shapes so many processes. There may be workarounds, but they’re not always simplified and most people may not know how to use them. That can take valuable time that you don’t always have.
We bring ours home to our outside trash can because once we threw it away in a neighbor’s and he brought us the poop back and not-so-kindly suggested we keep it out of his trash. (The trash collector was coming within the hour to collect the can, and the bag was tightly tied)
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How the fuck do I find out where and when all these protests and rallies are happening?
27·8 months agoThis has some. I don’t think 50501 is on there but there’s a range of events. My teacher’s union posted on here and then I found a few more.
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Removing Watermarks From Images With Gemini Is Now Way Too EasyEnglish
7·8 months agoWhat if I asked it to place a white border around the image? Would it watermark the white, which I could then crop?
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
News@lemmy.world•US measles cases reach 5-year high; 15 states report cases, Texas outbreak grows
5·8 months ago“And in 2019 there was a startling 1,274 cases, largely driven by massive outbreaks in New York”
But also, we are higher in less than three months than we have been in entire years in the past. There’s still time.
Our house is mostly mobile. We each have a laptop but it’s more for “bigger things” like filing taxes, booking a trip, designing something, and filling out forms. We have decided that we are getting a desktop within the next year, however. We have a toddler and it’s important to me that she is able to navigate a mouse and keyboard. I work in a school library and my lesson on using the catalog in 2nd grade begins with how to use a computer mouse because I have some of the only desktops that are left in the school. (I’ve even had grown-ass adults come in and try to touch the screen).
It was a Christmas gift, but thanks for the heads up!
I have a soda stream and then several flavoring options. I have mio and other brands, then soda syrups, and cocktail mixers. That way I can control the amount of sweet. I personally don’t like the flavor of artificial sweeteners or stevia so I try to find ones that use real sugar and real fruit extract. There’s some with caffeine too.
Which is why my mother homeschooled me. Couldn’t let the indoctrination happen. Just gotta pray away the self harm and eating disorder.
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the best loophole you've ever found or learned about?
3·10 months agoMy American Express card was compromised a few weeks ago and while they sent me a new card I was still able to use the old one at stores, use mobile payments, and recurring payments could process. The only thing I couldn’t do was use it online. Even after I received the new card, recurring transactions were able to occur.
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Is there a search engine that blocks websites known to create low effort/AI generated articles?English
13·11 months agoUnless I need something recent whenever I search I update the results to dates from like 1999 to 2021. Filters out a lot of unnecessary crap.
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
News@lemmy.world•Hawaii volcano: Warning after toddler nearly runs off cliff
7·11 months agoWhen my sister was a toddler we went on a trip to the Grand Canyon. Immediately after arriving she started climbing over a small barrier that had a steep drop on the other side. Her harness stopped from what could’ve been a terrible accident.
93maddie94@lemm.eeto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Do you have a Christmas meal (breakfast, lunch, dinner) with your friends and family? If so, how was your experience this year?
1·11 months agoThat sounds like our thanksgiving! 10/10 would recommend.



Connect with the local Deaf community. There’s likely a Facebook group or something that you can browse (even without an account). Look at local community classes, college courses, or even free classes held at a church. Our local community has a bi-weekly silent dinner at the mall and other events that hearing and Deaf people attend. I started with a local community center class ($50 for 8 weeks or whatever) and then found everything else through the instructor. I usually screenshot the silent dinner dates from the Facebook group and then attend when I can.